What is a mother and what is a father?

Is it all just possible that they all are just apart of an evil ploy to give all the children in the world depression, wonder, angst?

in the dictionary merriam-webster the definition of family is: the basic unit in society traditionally consisting of two parents rearing their own or adopted children; also : any of various social units differing from but regarded as equivalent to the traditional family <a single-parent family> b : spouse and children <want to spend more time with my family>

in my own definition: a family is a group of people born into a home or born into the people that you will most likely see everyday of your life. A family is a bunch of people that love and support each other. That take care of each other through think and thin!

the definition for mother is: a mother is the person that another person gives life from.

in my own definition: a mother is a person that could be your role model. your main purpose in life. the reason now why i am alive today. a mother is the lady who gave part of herself to give us our own life.

the definition for father is: man of the household.

in my own definition: a father is the man of the house yes. but then the father is one of the sole providors of the household.

<<now i think to myself if this is what a family is and this is what mothers and fathers are and what they do, do i have a family? Do i have a mother? Do i have a father?>>

all these questions form all under the same place. if a mother is a person that gave part of her self to haev to born then why would she treat me with no remorse what so ever. if you were a mother. would you leave the house with your child alone, no food, no money and no idea of that. if you were a mother and your child asked you "mom, what about my lunch, there's no food?" would you say, "just go on a diet! your so fat!" Is that what a mother does? if that is what a mother is i want to take a second back to wonder, do i really need that?

Family? what is it anyway?